I Can Make You Great or I Can Make You A Failure

WHO am I?

Let me give you some clues.

Exactly WHO IS ME?

I am your constant companion.
I am your greatest helper or heaviest burden.
I will push you onward or drag you down to failure.
Success Habits

I am completely at your command.
Half of the things you do you might as well turn
over to me and I will do them – quickly and correctly.

I am easily managed – you must be firm with me.
Show me exactly how you want something done
and after a few lessons, I will do it automatically.

I am the servant of great people, and alas, of all failures as well.
I MAKE GREAT PEOPLE—-That is a CLUE.
Those who are great, I have made great.
Those who are failures, I have made failures.

I am not a machine though, however . . .
I work with the precision of a machine
plus the intelligence of a person.

You may run me for profit or run me for ruin –
it makes no difference to me.

Take me, train me, be firm with me, and I will place the world at your feet.
Be easy with me and I will destroy you.
Who am I?

I am HABIT.


It’s the habits you develop that determine your success in your Young Living Business or anything else.


As Jim Rohn said, “Work more on yourself than you work on your business.” Working on personal development is one of the best habits you can form. Not only working on mindset but also working on the skills you need to become a professional in your business.


In any business, you have to learn the ropes. There is ALWAYS a learning curve. There is training. Even if you work at McDonalds or Walmart, you have a training process to go through. You learn to take orders, run the cash register, learn about all the products, you learn how to deal with customers and a multitude of other things.


There is a big difference in the learning you learn as a business owner. You are learning skills that can either make you rich or make you struggle and fail in your business.


“You can never have, “do” or receive more than your own habits predict.”


Ask yourself, What habits am I developing that will insure the success I want for myself and my family. Are my habits productive or are they getting in the way of my success? We all need a self evaluating sometimes. We all go through periods of time where we are needing a kick in the pants.

Habit of Reading


Here are a couple good habits we all should be doing every day:

  • Read a few pages of a good book every day. Read something that will develop success mindset or skills you need for your business.

  • Listen to training webinars and . There are lots of excellent trainers out there that have awesome training. People who have built a successful business and share how they have done it.


Why not join me in building million dollar habits today.

Developing a Growth Mindset For Success

Having a growth mindset is a really important key in the success of your Young Living business. It doesn’t matter if you plan a full time income or a part time supplemental income.

A growth mindset is the belief that you can improve and grow with effort and perseverance. If you trouble in this area, grab a bottle of Young Living’s Believe essential oil blend. Apply and inhale whenever you are feeling doubts about your ability to grow.

People with a growth mindset don’t beat up on themselves whenever they make a mistake. They learn from their mistakes. They make adjustments and keep on going when they have setbacks.

There are many things that you can do to develop a growth mindset.

Here are some tips on how to do that:

  • Set goals and track your progress. – Know where you want to go in your Young Living business. Set small goals and larger ones. Keep those goals in mind as you are working toward them. Use Magnify Your Purpose oil blend and think about the goals and how you will grow with each step.

  • Read about or listen to people with a growth mindset similar to the direction you want to make progress in. Listen to audios and videos. Watch Facebook Lives on the USAYoungLiving Facebook page. A recent Win the Week had Diamond leader Lori Borre talking about how to draw people into oily conversations and sell without feeling icky. She starts speaking at about 22 minutes into the video. It’s awesome!! Massive growth here.

    Lori also has a book The Harvest – Service Driven Sales In A Me Driven World.

    Follow people on Instagram and Facebook and watch how they are talking about using the oils in every day living, not selling and pitching but sharing how they are living healthy.

  • Learn some Sharing Ideas and choose what fits your style and have them in mind and prepared for oily conversations.

  • Take on challenging tasks. Try something new. Make a video or show yourself making a DIY recipe. Have an oil class. Start with using oils in front of people. Share a drop of Stress Away.

  • Remember the essential oil blends that help with growth mindset. Some examples are Magnify Your Purpose, Abundance, Believe, Envision, Highest Potential, Transformation, Valor.

By focusing a growth mindset, you can grow your Young Living business into whatever degree of success you want.

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Abundance Challenge – Releasing Blocks and Allowing Abundance

I hope you are doing daily Abundance Oil inhalation and focusing on growing in abundance.

Today I want to talk to you about ALLOWING abundance. It may sound silly to even need to bring this up. Of course I want abundance! The problem is, we all have things in our past that can contribute to BLOCKS and RESISTANCE. There are a LOT of different things that can cause this. I have some tools to help with this so NO WORRIES! 😉

I will let you know a couple of my abundance blocks to help get us started. In my past I had a couple traumatic experiences that made me know, deep down inside, that it is not safe in this world. The most traumatic was at age 9 a stranger attempted to abduct me. I was able to escape so nothing serious happened but I was really traumatized. That event stayed with me to this day. This shows up in all kinds of blocks and restrictions in abundance and even weight loss areas. One subconscious block was a fear of being too visible.

Another thing I want to mention is my parents fear of people stealing your money. Today there is a big problem with identity theft. As a child I heard my parents talking about people stealing your credit cards and stealing your money. I subconsciously took on my parents fears. For me, it translated to fear of having enough money for people to want to steal it. This is a subconscious fear. Our subconscious could actually make a VOW to never have enough money for someone to steal.

This can happen in small seeming insignificant ways too. An experience that happened to someone else can make an impact. One example: When I was elementary school age I saw a friend fall off the stage after giving a presentation. She tripped on the microphone cord and fell flat on her face. I laughed out loud and then was embarrassed that I laughed. My laughing at her made an impact on my subconscious mind. If I laughed at her when she made a mistake on stage, people will laugh at ME.

It’s interesting how our subconscious mind works. Years ago I started using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) to help clear some of my emotional blocks. EFT is a wonderful tool for removing blocks but also raising energy level for most anything you are working to make progress in. I use EFT a LOT with affirmations and positive self talk. Affirmations are good but if I want to really make them powerful, I add an essential oil like Abundance Oil and then tap through the EFT points while focusing on the affirmations.

When you start doing EFT on a certain fear or emotional block, you might notice things from your past coming into your mind. This is VERY important. These memories that pop into your mind will be important things to tap on and clear. The tapping seems to bring things to mind.

Large and even the small things can become blocks and resistance to your progress. It’s like when one wheel on a shopping cart is stuck. You can move forward but it’s slower than it would be if all the wheels were moving in the right direction. Well, we can fix that! Thanks to EFT and other energy exercises you can clear these things that are blocking and slowing you down.

EFT or Emotional Freedom Techniques is a form of psychological acupressure. With EFT you are tapping on various acupuncture meridian points while you focus on a negative issue you would like to change. You can also use EFT while saying affirmations.

More on EFT here:
What is EFT and How Can It Help Your Network Marketing Business?

EFT Points and Corresponding Body Organs

Remember, words have power. You can add allowing statements to your morning energy exercise. You can also tap through the EFT points as you do the energy exercise or other visualizations. Put oils on your fingertips before you tap.

I will be adding more on common blocks and resistance to abundance in upcoming blog posts, as well as EFT to help you clear each one.

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Releasing Blocks and Allowing Abundance

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Don’t Send Your Ducks To Eagle School

Here is a great paragraph from a past issue of the Jim Rohn newsletter:

“I picked up a magazine not long ago in New York that had a full-page ad in it for a hotel chain. The first line of the ad read, “We do not teach our people to be nice.” Now that got my attention. The second line said, “We hire nice people.” I thought, “what a clever shortcut!” ”


The title of that article was “Don’t Send Your Ducks to Eagle School.” I remember Jim Rohn saying that in a live event I attended many years ago. I didn’t fully grasp what he meant at the time.


Not everyone is going to have success in this business. I have to admit, I have had a bit of a struggle with this one over the years. I’m over 28 years in my Young Living career and I have seen a LOT of distributors come and go. Some were friends who saw my success and wanted it for themselves, others were friends I met through the process of being their sponsor or upline. I often want success for them more than they want it themselves.


I guess it’s because I have come through hard financial times and network marketing was the solution for me. My YL business gave me freedom to work from home and not have to be tied to any schedule. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. Because of that, I want others to experience freedom of time and finances.


When I saw the headline in the latest Jim Rohn newsletter, I had to chuckle a bit. Sometimes, in our desire to help people we care about, we expect them to be network marketing eagles. We want them to be eagles because we want success for our friends. Frankly, some will never be network marketing eagles.


As Jim Rohn said, “Good people are found not changed. They can change themselves, but you can’t change them. You want good people, you have to find them. If you want motivated people, you have to find them, not motivate them.”


YL Business Builders Eagle

It may sound harsh but you can’t change people. A duck will never become an eagle. Even eagles may not seem like eagles in the beginning. They need to LEARN to fly. The point is, the network marketing eagle has certain qualities that others do not have, motivation and willingness to learn are on top of the list.


I used to wonder how I would find those eagles but experience has taught me, the eagles will show themselves. You will see a lot of people come through your pipeline if you are actively building your business. Every month I sponsor several people. The eagles show themselves in what they do.


Network Marketing Eagle Traits

  • They are interested in learning from others who have done it. They seek out leaders and find out what they have done to have their level of success. They gather with other eagles to learn eagle traits. This is accomplished by attending events, conference calls talking on the phone with upline leaders and any way possible to learn eagle traits. Even reading emails and articles like this one is in indication that you are a network marketing eagle. The ducks don’t read emails from their team leaders. They either don’t bother to subscribe or they delete because they don’t have the time.

  • They are motivated to succeed and they are workers. Everyone has their own pace but the network marketing eagle is moving forward, making progress every day. They don’t let setbacks stop them from their goal.

  • They take the initiative. They are not waiting for upline to do it all for them. They pick up the phone and call upline leaders who can guide them. They make themselves known as a serious business builder: an EAGLE!

  • Eagles have great vision. The network marketing eagle also has vision. They see what they want and are laser focused on getting it.

  • Eagles do not waste time on dead things. They eat live animals. Don’t wast time in your network marketing career trying to pick at and wake up the dead distributors who are negative and will never do anything. It’s better to go out and find fresh new prospects.

  • Eagles don’t let stormy times get them down. While some birds fly away from a storm, an eagle will fly into it and adjust their wings to allow them to climb to greater heights. The network marketing eagle will take the stormy times and learn lessons that will make them fly higher in their business.

  • Eagles nurture their young. Eagles are very gentle and attentive to their young ones. Network marketing eagles train and encourage their downline so that when they are ready, they can fly on their own.


You can develop these qualities. That’s a sign of an eagle. 😉

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Using Essential Oils and EFT For Business

As Young Living business builders you have powerful tools at your fingertips. Essential oils are very useful in putting you in the right mindset and mood for daily activities in business building. Using essential oils and EFT can be even more helpful Try Motivation oil for getting started on those days when you just aren’t feeling it. I find it useful in raising my level of passion for whatever I am working on.

I even use Motivation oil for keeping motivated to stay on a healthy diet. I put a drop behind each ear on the vagus nerve and then think about my affirmation, “I am MOTIVATED to do what it takes to release the excess fat from my body.”

OR “I am MOTIVATED to do what it takes to be a successful YL Business Builder.” Whatever your affirmation is, use an oil with it. Magnify Your Purpose is another great one for focusing your intent.

All of the oils here are wonderful along with EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). Just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and tap through the EFT points.

What is EFT and How Can It Help Your Network Marketing Business?

Use your oils along with the EFT techniques and you will have a powerful tool for removing blocks to building your Young Living business. We all have blocks sometimes. If you find yourself procrastinating, there is a block. If you want to learn more about EFT. I have a whole website on EFT for Network Marketers.

My favorite oils for EFT on my business and abundance are: Abundance, Gathering, Believe, Valor, Gratitude, Acceptance, Motivation.
Others I sometimes use: Awaken, Envision, Highest Potential, Into the Future. It depends on your issues and what blocks you tend to have, which oils you will use. Remember to use White Angelica when you are around people who are negative about what you are doing. White Angelica helps protect you from picking up other people’s negative feelings.

Building a Successful Business

Use Oils With EFT:
Procrastination: Acceptance, Envision, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation.
Lacking self control: Motivation, Roman Chamomile

Mood uplifting oils: Elemi, Frankincense, Lavender, Rose, Orange, Lemon, Abundance, Citrus Fresh, Christmas Spirit, Harmony, Hope, Joy, Valor.

Frustration: Acceptance, Frankincense, Gathering, Ginger, Hope, Humility, Lavender, Lemon, Present Time, Roman Chamomile, Spruce, Valor.
Stress and anxiety: Peace & Calming, Stress Away
Reinforce positive feelings: Acceptance, Abundance, Envision, Forgiveness, Harmony, Joy, Motivation, Passion, 3 Wise Men
Emotional Blocks: Cypress, Frankincense, Harmony, Helichrysum, Release, Sandalwood, Spearmint, Spruce, Valor.
Balance: Frankincense, Geranium, Grounding, Harmony, Juniper, Lavender, Roman Chamomile, Sandalwood, Valor, White Angelica.

Overcoming Fears & Phobias:
Fear: Valor, Spruce, Roman Chamomile, Trauma Life, White Angelica

Lacking confidence: Jasmine, Passion, Sandalwood, Valor.
Build self esteem: Acceptance, Joy, Valor.
Lacking in self love: Joy, Valor, Rose.
Lacking courage: Valor
Lacking in Motivation: Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Passion, Peppermint.

Can’t envision success: Envision, Believe

Attracting Abundance: Abundance, Acceptance, Harmony, Gathering.
Prosperity: Abundance, Bergamot, Cinnamon Bark, Cypress.

More on EFT:
What is EFT and How Can It Help Your Network Marketing Business?

EFT for Network Marketers

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